As someone born in Australia, how America as a nation deals with people’s different racial backgrounds confuses me.
A nation that talks so much of unity yet whose practices seem to divide and not in a passive way.
I was talking with a mate of mine, Chaffie at the gym the other day - Chaffie’s a black fella. (That’s a description not a racial comment - there is nothing implied other than he has more melanin). Chaffie would call me a white fella, because I am (some would say melanin impaired!).
Chaffie told me how a child belonging to one of his personal training clients announced to him that he “didn’t like brown people” and asked not to talk to them any more. My reflection to Chaffie was that we could take the kids father outside and discuss race relations in the carpark…. mano a mano…might not help my standing as a local church pastor, but would sure make me feel better about how a friend was treated.
But then I open up the Star Telegraph and they announce that an African-American church is coming and is planting a church in the area, build a big complex, etc., etc. Now they didn’t say “St John the Baptist Church from Grand Prairie is opening a new church”, they said St John the Baptist Church is planting a new black church to meet the needs of the blacks in the area, because black people are not having their needs met. Black people according to their pastor are different from white people so they need a special church. Maybe it has more to do with my Australian background - but that to me sounds racist and down right insulting. What if I was to say, “We have come to plant a white church in Southlake to meet the needs of the white people.” I would be labeled KKK and sued silly.
Does no one else read these sorts of things, hear these sorts of things and not say to themselves “Idiot - shut up you’re not solving anything you’re making matters worse”.
Does no one else read this sort of stuff and get ticked off???
Why couldn’t the guy just come to town and do a good thing for God and help as many people as he could without making it an issue of color - not of race - but he made it an issue of melanin, just like the little boy did at the gym. You’ve got less melanin than us so you can’t join our ‘melanin- plus’ church.
I feel like I have been slurred, that every church in Southlake slurred. Maybe the Pastor of St John’s should get over his bad ‘black’ self.
Our church is young, but it is full of people from different backgrounds. Mexican, Puerto Rican, German, Italian, Welsh, English. Funny thing is, I never stopped to ask their race, just their relationship with Christ. But apparently you can’t say anything in America because everyone is so sensitive and fragile they get offended…. grow up, would you?
I didn’t know we needed black churches and white churches. I didn’t know there was a Black Savior and a White Savior. That gets the same reaction from me that the kids racist comment got about my friend.
Now Chaffie and I are mates. I never stopped to think of his race when we meet, while we trained at the gym, when he started helping me with a church project, when I prayed for his life, his healing, his soul. Whenever I shared Christ with him.
Chaffie wasn’t a blackman in need of a friend, Chaffie was a man in need of a Savior. He became my friend and I have shared my Savior, oh by the way he has more melanin than me.
I was deeply disappointed not in the little boy, but in his father for allowing his son to grow up that way.
I am deeply disappointed, not in the people of St John’s Church but in the Pastor who allowed them to grow up that way.